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To train your beta, punishments are – beneath others – a great tool to convince him about the seriousness of the education. And it also motivates him to execute the tasks properly. Since every Mistress-beta-relationship is different, I encourage you to create your own punishment style.
On this page, I want to show you how I punish my beta and – even more critical – where you can find mistakes and, therefore, good reasons for a lovely little punishment. And since “better beta” is an ideal tool to educate your beta over distance or when separated, there are also ideas for telepunishment. I you don't trust him, supervise his punishment via video chat.
After the general punishment ideas, you will find advice and experiences for every single task in the first better beta issue. Have fun(ishment)!
General Punishment
Lazy Coloring/Small Mistakes
Poke him with a pencil for every mistake.
And don't forget to use your sharpener now and then.
Missing Coloring
This comes from huddling. So let him stay in the corner – one or two minutes for each missing item.
Bad Handwriting
First of all, lousy handwriting shows a lack of respect! So, before you waste your time struggling through his ugly font face, let your beta write lines repeatedly until his font face gets nice and readable.
Inappropriate behavior
A beta has to be polite and well-educated at all times. Let him kneel with a pencil under each knee if he can't do that. This excruciating position is the perfect opportunity for him to think about his behavior, and it usually takes just minutes to regret it.
Blank fields/Missing answers
If he is too stupid or too embarrassed to answer, squeezing his balls is a great brainstorming tool and usually guarantees immediate success.
Breaking the rules/Wrong answers
For this, there is only one tool. The ruler. Three spanks on his hand, on his bottoms, or wherever it helps him most to remember.
Dishonesty
When you think he isn't honest enough, give him 30 minutes of corner time to think about it again.
Rewards
If he was a good boy, reward him as you wish. With some treats like allowances, teasing, or - if he was a very good boy - even a full orgasm. Add whips, robes, handcuffs and all other kinks as you wish!
Specific Punishments
in order of appearance
“man”tra
Writing your name in the blank is an essential first step for him to actively dive into submission and get the thought of serving deep into his mind. It also ensures that beta has one thing constantly in his mind: his Mistress's wellbeing. Make sure he colorizes the page nicely.
You are beta.
Not necessary to mention, but just to be sure. Since this is Volume two of better beta, a short recap session will get him in line again. First, it's important to let the beta introduce himself properly. You should control if he uses the name you call him. When it comes to the dicklets name, make sure it is humiliating. You can always change the name if you like. Look up “Better Beta Vol. 1 – Call it Names” for creating a proper name for his excuse of a penis.
No breaks for betas.
You will find lovely tasks for the beta to complete outside this workbook wherever there is some space. They will force him to do some humiliating things that get him outside his comfort zone, which is an excellent training. Make sure he accomplishes them in time and control the outcome. If he doesn't do a good job, it's an excellent reason for a lovely little spanking over your lap.
Namaste, bitch!
After saying the mantra, a little obedient morning routine will make a perfect start to the day. And it is also fun to watch. Supervise it randomly and make sure he takes enough time for each position and is breathing correctly. As the meaning of this exercise is to remember the positions correctly, order him to get into various positions whenever you please. (Of course, you can alter the positions to your needs.) As important as a good posture is the rapid execution of the positions. A hard slap will help.
Cane you bear it?
Finally, it's getting serious. This is a great exercise to talk about punishment. And punishment tools. While the punishments at the following site get a little more psychological, we want to start with the simplest form of punishment: Physical impact punishment.
Ask your beta about all the punishment tools he can imagine and which are his least favorite. If he doesn't consider your needs (like slapping with your hand is also hurtful to you and therefore not the best choice), add some punishment. Brainstorm a good reason why the beta needs discipline and execute it. Note that you don't need a reason to apply punishment.
A punishment to remember
This is another excellent training to help your beta understand which punishment suits you and gives some inspiration on a suitable punishment.
Beta boy rules
And now we seal the deal. In this exercise, your beta learns the rules of this workbook and is responsible for picking the fitting punishments with the right amounts. There is no right or wrong way to answer this question, but you can always play the Mistress card and tell him he is wrong.
Here is my standard solution:
Sloppy coloring – 2 pokes with a sharp pencil
Wrong answer – 3 punches in his balls
Misspelling – 1 whack with a ruler
Being dishonest – 2 clamps on his body
Refusing a task – 4 weeks in chastity
Lazy work / White space – 2 quarters in the corner facing the wall
Lack of respect / Language – 2 rounds of mouth soaping
Defiant attitude – 5 slaps on his bottom
Being a whiny little boy – 12 hours in diapers
Inappropriate behavior – 5 minutes kneeling on chopsticks
Pubic enemy
Let him draw his desired pubic hair. Even if you want your beta clean shaved, you can demand that he uses some make-up to draw attention to his little dick. Praise him if he gets creative and fancy and uses lovely dye or other accessories. Then ask him why he doesn't wear his pubic hair like that? Force him to do it.
Less is more (Privileges)
This is very fun to experiment with. And very intense for betas, as this is a life-changer. But for the better, of course. It's no problem to work with the try and error principle, which setting works best for you.
Make sure you decide about the privileges together (That doesn't mean that he is deciding actively, he needs just to be physically present and agree)
If he breaks a rule without a perfect excuse, take away more privileges.
Add little reminders to underline the seriousness. If he isn't allowed to drive the car, get a nice pink key fob that says “fuck off.” If he isn't allowed to close the door behind himself, dismantle the door handle. Or the whole door. You can also delete all his contacts but make sure you own a copy of them, just in case.
At first, evaluate the privilege plan every week. Later every two or three months should be more than enough. Asking for permission is usually a safe choice, though if he asks too often, take away the allowance for some time. Make good use of the time you are giving him by reducing his privileges. If he earns money at this time, it's yours. D'oh.
Find a blank sheet for your own privileges HERE!
Care & Control
From time-to-time betas need a reward. It could be nice words, gentle touching, or a nice picture to colorize.
Enema at the gates
If you are into enemas or giving enemas, this is great. You can administer them to him and have another chance to be in control over him. But it is also OK to let him practice by himself. And check the outcome. If he has no experience with enemas and the possible risks, send him to google it first.
Fun with enemas
These are some great tasks for the filled-up beta. Keep in mind that a mess could happen, but keep in mind that he tries even harder if the stakes are higher. Let him put on clothes after you administer the enema. Don't let him do the exercises in the bathroom, but in the kitchen. If he makes a mess, scold him while he cleans it up.
Solution to enema game 5: This is actually the soduko from the Wikipedia page. He should have a hard time, not we. Watch his face when you just open the page and control it.
Solution to Enema Game 6: The answer is “ YOU (a)R(e) A MESS. And I hope he also made one.
From task till dawn!
Even if betas day is full of chores, there is always time to do a little task to entertain his Mistress. Even if he has done a task alone himself, you could always ask him to repeat it so that you can see and control him.
The ass-mess
I've laughed tears watching him licking and pleasuring this paper ass. Make sure to have your smartphone ready to film him. It's hilarious and a great clip to watch when the girls are over.
Special Guests: Bratprincess.us
Does he love to get humiliated when you compare him to other, better men? Talk about those men while you touch him gently, even caressing his tiny dick.
The characteristics game is relatively simple. But doing it in only 5 minutes is somewhat tricky. Prepare yourself to punish him. After the 5 minutes pass, you can motivate him to search more rapidly with your cane. Weirdly also, nipple clamps help him to get into it and find the words way faster.
Beta's first APC
This sounds like a fun first, but even if he likes anal play, this is pretty much action for his beta hole. But it's just so entertaining imaging or watching him do this. If you are not satisfied with the object, you can always make him brainstorm about a new thing. You can do this exercise as suggested in a week, but you can also give him some more time and brainstorm the “object of the day.”
Be curious but cautious. Wash and disinfect the objects. If you are not sure about hygiene, use a condom and listen to your body.
Inspirational list
A is for Asparagus
B is for Banana (what a mess)
C is for Champagne Bottle (use with a condom over the bottleneck to prevent a vacuum suction)
D is for Dick (actually not a real one but a pretty decent rubber dick)
E is for Electric toothbrush
F is for flowers (he looked like a vase, very decorative)
G is for ginger
H is for Hand (at least a half a hand)
I is for ice cubes.
J is for Joint
K is for knife handle
L is for Lightsaber
M is for milk frother (he REALLY liked that)
N is for noodles (cooked ass dente, very Italian)
O is for Olives
P is for Piss Enema
Q is for Queue (Billiard cue stick, don't ask us where we did this=
R is for ribbon (when he pulled it out, it looked like a magic trick)
S is for screwdriver (the handle)
T is for Tampon
U is for Unicorn (this poor little thing)
V is for Vibrator
W is for wooden stick (he carved it really nice)
X is for X mas Decoration.
Y is for Yellow Marker (if you come up with anything better, write us
Z is for Zucchini (of course, he had to eat that too)
Sleep tied
A lovely story to end the day for a beta. Let him read it alone or while you tease him. Either way, he is not allowed to cum after this.
Writing Lines
If you've read Better Beta Volume 1, you know that I just LOVE to make him write lines. It's excellent to mesmerize him with your message, annoying for him, and convenient for you. Check his spelling, check his font face, be super severe and let him rewrite the whole page if it isn't good enough.
You can download all 6 Writing exercises right here: Writing Lines 1 - Writing Lines 2 - Writing Lines 3 - Writing Lines 4 - Writing Lines 5 - Writing Lines 6
ByeByeBeta
If he hasn't a panty fetish already (which he should be because they are your panties!), help him develop one! If you like, you can place your panties over his face while he does the exercise.
After doing this exercise, you can make him do this with your worn panties.
Furthermore, make him responsible for your panties from now on. He doesn't have to wash them by hand (every time), but he should at least kiss each of your worn panties BEFORE he puts them in the washing machine.
Ruin it!
There are many possibilities to play this game. I like to watch him watching porn and make humiliating comments about his choice, the setting, and his wanking skills. Sometimes I compliment the actors, compare their dicks to his, and so on. It's fun, you will see.
When he follows the orders correctly and stops at the exact moment he comes, he should have enjoyed a ruined orgasm. I hope it's a weird scene he has to draw.
You can reward him with a full orgasm if he has done an incredible job. (But I am not sure if that would be too rewarding.)
Blow up your self-esteem.
What an entertaining and degrading scenario. This task aims to teach your bitchboy how to tread women. So make sure he treats her as good as he treats you. Check if he has engaged with the doll. Question him about it, why he gave her this name (He better not gives the doll your name), what her hobbies are so on. We will continue with this scenario in the next Volume of Better Beta. In the meantime, he should go and buy a sex doll. Don't go for a realistic one; a cheap rubber doll from your local sex shop should be more than enough for his needs. And also adds a little bit of humiliation if he is shy.
Time to grow little!
A lovely little coloring page with some tasks. And a teaser to our next workbook project: growing little, the workbook for adult babies and their caregivers. Here you can find more information about GROWING LITTLE.
The beta cum calendar.
While writing the solutions, I had the feeling that beta was allowed too many orgasms on this issue. Therefore, we should reduce that amount. And betas cum calendar is an excellent tool to do this. There are many ways to work with the calendar, and you can change the rules every month.
We liked the gamification part. And the fact that he actively plays the game and is responsible for the outcome.
Other ways to play that game would be:
Reconcile the cum dates with your personal calendar. Deny him orgasms when you have appointments, long meetings, the day after the meetings, and the day before. You could hate Mondays and Tuesdays, and you just want him to be full of energy on the weekend so he could serve you much better. You get the drill :-)
Let him draw the dice every day, but make it more challenging to achieve an orgasm by using two dice. (Or 20-sided dice, if you have one – That's terrible luck for nerds.)
Help us make better beta better!
Every Mistress-beta-relationship is different. I would love to hear about your experiences and looking forward to your suggestions. Your feedback is always welcome at feedback@better-beta.net